Natural Family Planning

Fertility awareness methods (FAM) can provide insightful health information to women of all ages and stages of fertility, from the start of menstruation until menopause. Fertility awareness methods can also serve as effective forms of natural family planning (NFP).

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This page was last updated April 4, 2024.

  • Misconceptions your doctor might have about NFP and fertility awareness, and how to respond to them

    By Clare Sharp • August 17, 2023
    When I had my first visit with an OB-GYN, I was already in my mid-twenties. I was blessed…
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    Tired of the Critical Comments about Your NFP Use and Pregnancy or Parenting Choices? Boundaries Can Help

    By Julia Hogan-Werner, LCPC • July 29, 2022
    “When are you having kids?” “Have you tried XYZ treatment for infertility?” “Congratulations on the new baby! We…
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    When NFP is Used to Abuse: Part II of II

    By Jeanette Flood • April 28, 2022
    Trigger warning: Spousal abuse, sexual abuse, domestic violence, pornography addiction Part II: Advice for NFP instructors and couples…
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    When NFP is Used to Abuse: Part I of II

    By Jeanette Flood • April 28, 2022
    Trigger warning: Spousal abuse, sexual abuse, domestic violence, pornography addiction At Natural Womanhood, we write frequently about the…
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    Abstinence and NFP: The Woman’s Perspective

    By Christina Valenzuela • November 27, 2021
    It was right smack dab in the middle of our fertile phase.  The kids were in bed.   I…
  • Men and NFP: When the challenges of periodic abstinence feel unbearable

    By Gerard Migeon • November 4, 2021
    Numerous studies show that the large majority of couples who practice NFP feel it improves their marital relationships,…
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    How I Overcame Resentment toward NFP for Less Frequent Sex

    By Joseph Mariston • April 17, 2019
    For a man, sometimes practicing Natural Family Planning can feel like a no-sex plan. In July 2018, Natural…
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    The Unique Challenges of Practicing NFP as a Military Family

    By Grace Emily Stark • October 27, 2018
    Sometimes promoters of Natural Family Planning (NFP) or Fertility Awareness Methods (FAMs) get criticized for painting too rosy…
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    Husbands Share Their Thoughts on NFP

    By Lindsay Schlegel • October 19, 2018
    It’s fair to say that using Fertility Awareness-Based Methods (FABMs) to achieve or avoid a pregnancy will change…
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    Tips for When Your Husband’s Not On Board With NFP

    By Lindsay Schlegel • September 29, 2018
    They say it takes two to tango . . . and it also takes two to practice natural…