Your libido is your desire and motivation for sex. Also known as your sex drive, your libido (or lack thereof) can be an important sign of the state of your reproductive health. As a woman, your libido can also clue you into where you are in your menstrual cycle, as most women’s libidos naturally peak around ovulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Learning a Fertility Awareness Method<\/a> (FAM) or Natural Family Planning (NFP) can help a woman understand the ups and downs of different hormones during her menstrual cycle, and therefore what natural fluctuations in libido look like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If your relationship is wonderful but you just can’t seem to get in the mood, know that it may not be all in your head! The following issues can all cause loss of libido, even in the most loving of relationships. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It should be no surprise that painful sex can contribute to a woman’s loss of libido. There are multiple reproductive health conditions that may make sex painful, including endometriosis, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), and others, many of which are addressed in the articles, below. For many of these issues, treatment from a restorative reproductive medical (RRM) provider, and\/or pelvic floor physical therapy can help you regain your enjoyment of sex (and hopefully your libido along with it!). <\/p>\n\n\n\n The DSM-V, the professional \u201cBible\u201d of the American Psychiatric Association, no longer recognizes HSDD as a distinct sexual disorder. Instead, it now folds HSDD and female sexual arousal disorder into \u201cfemale sexual interest\/arousal disorder.\u201d HSDD is characterized by a lack of desire <\/a>for sex that lasts at least six months and causes \u201cclinically significant personal distress.\u201d This definition overlaps with that of female sexual dysfunction (FSD) but is more specific, focusing solely on desire <\/em>rather than problems with arousal or orgasm. Know too, that this diagnosis refers to a decrease in sexual desire that is not<\/em> explained by any medical condition, hormonal birth control use that started <\/a>in adolescence and continued for at least two years, other medications (like antidepressants), pregnancy or recent childbirth, menopause, other sexual issues, your partner\u2019s sexual problems, relationship issues, and stress or fatigue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One of the greatest paradoxes about birth control is that, while it may make sex seem more available to women, it can tank women’s libidos, making them <\/span>feel less in the mood.<\/span><\/a> <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n For many women, <\/span>hormonal birth control might be the main culprit in their lowered sex drive<\/span><\/a>. This could have something to do with the fact that hormonal birth control suppresses testosterone levels in women, the hormone that is responsible for sexual arousal in women (as well as men). Lowered levels of testosterone might not only negatively affect a woman\u2019s sex drive, but also her sexual satisfaction. Low testosterone is also linked with vaginal dryness, which makes sex less enjoyable\u2014even painful\u2014for many women. Therefore women on the birth control pill may have a more difficult time \u201cgetting in the mood,\u201d or experiencing arousal and orgasm. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n There\u2019s also the matter of depression and anxiety\u2014both of which can be symptoms of hormonal birth control use. For many struggling with depression, the condition may go hand-in-hand with a loss of libido or disinterest in sex. Low testosterone is associated with depression in women (and men), and as we\u2019ve already discussed, low testosterone may cause decreased sex drive. Further compounding the issue, the antidepressant medications often used to treat depression and anxiety are also known for their libido-lowering effects. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Birth control may also cause physical changes to the clitoris, labia, vaginal opening, and vulva. In one clinical study, birth control (both oral contraceptives and the vaginal ring) was actually shown to shrink the size of a woman\u2019s clitoris.<\/a> Another study found that oral contraceptives also thinned the tissue of both the labia minora and the vaginal introitus, and changed the vascularization of the vulvar tissue. These changes can make sex less desirable, less pleasurable (i.e., harder to achieve orgasm), and more painful for women. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Click on \u201cReferences\u201d below to view scientific references for loss of libido and its connections to birth control use.<\/p>\n\n\nLost your sex drive? This could be the reason<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Painful sex<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) and Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD)<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Birth control and loss of sex drive<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Birth control and low testosterone<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Birth control and anxiety and depression<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Birth control and physical changes to the female anatomy<\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n