{"id":22836,"date":"2025-07-17T08:00:48","date_gmt":"2025-07-17T13:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/?p=22836"},"modified":"2025-07-18T09:22:33","modified_gmt":"2025-07-18T14:22:33","slug":"le-controle-des-naissances-nest-pas-pret-pour-un-bebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/birth-control-not-ready-for-a-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce que c'est que de rompre avec la contraception quand on n'est pas encore pr\u00eate pour un b\u00e9b\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon parcours dans le domaine de la connaissance de la fertilit\u00e9 et de son application \u00e0 la planification familiale (aussi appel\u00e9e planification familiale naturelle ou PFN) est un excellent exemple de la fa\u00e7on dont les m\u00e9thodes de connaissance de la fertilit\u00e9 (MCF) conviennent aux femmes \u00e0 tous les niveaux de leurs objectifs en mati\u00e8re de fertilit\u00e9 et de planification familiale. Alors que certains couples se familiarisent avec la PFN avant de se marier, tout mon apprentissage s'est d\u00e9roul\u00e9 dans le cadre de la PFN. <em>pendant <\/em>Le mariage a \u00e9t\u00e9 un v\u00e9ritable d\u00e9fi, car nous avons tour \u00e0 tour essay\u00e9 d'\u00e9viter la grossesse, essay\u00e9 de concevoir, et pendant la p\u00e9riode postnatale et l'allaitement. En fait, il est parfois difficile de suivre les \"r\u00e8gles\" parce que j'ai \u00e9t\u00e9 enceinte ou que j'ai allait\u00e9 pendant les 7,5 derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es ! Pourtant, gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 la PFN, aucun de mes quatre enfants n'a eu de \"surprise\", \u00e0 moins que vous ne comptiez le choc total que nous soyons maintenant capables de concevoir si rapidement <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/larret-de-la-contraception-hormonale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">apr\u00e8s deux ans d'infertilit\u00e9 primaire<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En fin de compte, j'esp\u00e8re que mon histoire aidera les femmes \u00e0 savoir que m\u00eame si l'apprentissage et l'utilisation de la PFN en pleine p\u00e9riode de planification familiale peuvent \u00eatre difficiles, cela n'en reste pas moins un d\u00e9fi. <em>est <\/em>possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-my-first-exposure-to-natural-family-planning\"><span id=\"my-first-exposure-to-natural-family-planning\">Mon premier contact avec la planification familiale naturelle<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>La premi\u00e8re fois que j'ai entendu parler de la PFN, c'est par ma s\u0153ur a\u00een\u00e9e. Elle a huit ans de plus que moi et s'est mari\u00e9e lorsque j'\u00e9tais au lyc\u00e9e. Elle et moi \u00e9tions suffisamment proches pour qu'elle me parle de son projet d'enfant et de celui de son mari, mais aussi du fait qu'ils n'\u00e9taient pas pr\u00eats \u00e0 avoir un enfant d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but de leur mariage.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elle a mentionn\u00e9 le planning familial naturel et <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/preservatifs-barrieres-a-lutilisation-apprentissage-sensibilisation-a-la-fertilite-fabms-2020\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">l'utilisation p\u00e9riodique de pr\u00e9servatifs<\/a> apr\u00e8s avoir essay\u00e9 une contraception hormonale dont elle n'aimait pas les effets secondaires. Mais lorsqu'il s'est agi d'en savoir plus sur les <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/que-dit-votre-cycle-menstruel-sur-votre-sante\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">la connaissance de la fertilit\u00e9 en tant qu'outil d'alphab\u00e9tisation corporelle<\/a>ou comment surveiller les biomarqueurs de fertilit\u00e9 qui rendent possible la PFN, je ne savais rien.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-breaking-up-with-birth-control-after-its-negative-side-effects\"><span id=\"breaking-up-with-birth-control-after-its-negative-side-effects\">Rompre avec la contraception apr\u00e8s ses effets secondaires n\u00e9gatifs<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Lorsque mon mari et moi nous sommes mari\u00e9s, j'ai pris un contraceptif hormonal parce que j'\u00e9tais \u00e0 l'\u00e9cole d'infirmi\u00e8res et que je ne connaissais pas d'autre moyen d'\u00e9viter une grossesse. M\u00eame si je savais vaguement que ma s\u0153ur utilisait la planification familiale naturelle, ma m\u00e8re m'avait toujours orient\u00e9e dans une direction diff\u00e9rente, en disant : \"Oh, c'est juste...\". <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/fam-basics-quest-ce-que-la-methode-du-rythme-controle-naturel-des-naissances\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">une m\u00e9thode rythmique<\/a> et \u00e7a ne marchera pas... Mieux vaut pr\u00e9voir un b\u00e9b\u00e9 dans six mois si c'est ce que vous choisissez de faire\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>M\u00eame si je savais vaguement que ma s\u0153ur utilisait le planning familial naturel, ma m\u00e8re m'a toujours orient\u00e9e dans une direction diff\u00e9rente, en disant : \"Oh, c'est juste...\". <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/fam-basics-quest-ce-que-la-methode-du-rythme-controle-naturel-des-naissances\/\">une m\u00e9thode rythmique<\/a> et \u00e7a ne marchera pas... Mieux vaut pr\u00e9voir un b\u00e9b\u00e9 dans six mois si c'est ce que vous choisissez de faire\".&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>J'ai donc pris une contraception hormonale et j'ai mis de c\u00f4t\u00e9 l'apprentissage de la PFN jusqu'\u00e0 ce que nous soyons pr\u00eats \u00e0 avoir un b\u00e9b\u00e9. Mais le moment d'apprendre la PFN est arriv\u00e9 plus t\u00f4t que pr\u00e9vu lorsque la contraception hormonale m'a caus\u00e9 un probl\u00e8me apr\u00e8s l'autre, notamment des insomnies, des saignements intermittents et d'horribles sautes d'humeur. Lorsque mon mari et moi avons finalement d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d'abandonner la contraception, il m'a fallu quelques mois de plus pour me plonger dans les m\u00e9thodes de sensibilisation \u00e0 la fertilit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-getting-started-with-natural-family-planning-and-choosing-a-method-nbsp\"><span id=\"getting-started-with-natural-family-planning-and-choosing-a-method\">Commencer \u00e0 utiliser la planification familiale naturelle et choisir une m\u00e9thode&nbsp;<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Apr\u00e8s quelques mois d'arr\u00eat de la contraception hormonale, je n'avais toujours pas retrouv\u00e9 mes r\u00e8gles. J'ai profit\u00e9 de cette p\u00e9riode pour me renseigner sur la fertilit\u00e9 et j'ai choisi de lire <em>Prendre en charge sa fertilit\u00e9<\/em> de Toni Weschler sur la recommandation de ma s\u0153ur a\u00een\u00e9e.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le livre de Weschler d\u00e9crit une version modifi\u00e9e de la <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/theme\/apprendre-une-methode\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">m\u00e9thode sympto-thermique<\/a>Le livre explique \u00e9galement aux femmes comment utiliser la position du col de l'ut\u00e9rus et les bandelettes d'hormone lut\u00e9inisante (LH) pour obtenir d'autres biomarqueurs de fertilit\u00e9. J'ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 prendre mes <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/methode-de-connaissance-de-la-fertilite-bases-temperature-corporelle-basale-bbt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">temp\u00e9rature basale du corps<\/a> et de dresser le tableau de mes <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/fam-basics-quest-ce-que-la-glaire-cervicale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">liquide cervical<\/a> imm\u00e9diatement. Cependant, cela s'est av\u00e9r\u00e9 difficile en raison de la longueur des cycles et de l'irr\u00e9gularit\u00e9 du liquide cervical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce n'est que lorsque j'ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 utiliser des rem\u00e8des naturels pour essayer de concevoir que j'ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 remarquer mes v\u00e9ritables signes de fertilit\u00e9 et que j'ai pu observer une courbe de temp\u00e9rature \"normale\" qui marquait et confirmait l'ovulation, ainsi que la mont\u00e9e et la descente du liquide cervical fertile.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C'\u00e9tait incroyable d'observer enfin un graphique \"normal\" qui confirmait l'ovulation. Je me suis sentie b\u00e9nie que mon corps fonctionne, et j'\u00e9tais reconnaissante d'avoir les informations n\u00e9cessaires pour comprendre ce que mon corps me disait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>C'\u00e9tait incroyable d'observer enfin un graphique \"normal\" qui confirmait l'ovulation. Je me suis sentie b\u00e9nie que mon corps fonctionne, et j'\u00e9tais reconnaissante d'avoir les informations n\u00e9cessaires pour comprendre ce que mon corps me disait.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ready-for-a-baby-nfp-helped-us-get-pregnant-and-identify-my-baby-s-true-due-date\"><span id=\"ready-for-a-baby-nfp-helped-us-get-pregnant-and-identify-my-babys-true-due-date\">Pr\u00eats pour un b\u00e9b\u00e9 : La PFN nous a aid\u00e9s \u00e0 tomber enceinte <em>et <\/em>identifier la v\u00e9ritable \"date d'accouchement\" de mon b\u00e9b\u00e9<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Il m'a fallu environ un an d'enregistrement, deux fausses couches et un changement radical de r\u00e9gime alimentaire pour concevoir enfin ma premi\u00e8re fille. Et la PFN a \u00e9t\u00e9 un outil incroyable pendant tout ce temps. M\u00eame si la conception a pris plus de temps que nous l'aurions souhait\u00e9, j'ai ador\u00e9 apprendre \u00e0 conna\u00eetre mon cycle. De plus, le fait de conna\u00eetre mes signes de fertilit\u00e9 m'a permis de mieux savoir quand mon mari et moi devrions avoir des relations intimes. Avant de conna\u00eetre mes signes de fertilit\u00e9, j'avais toujours l'impression d'\u00eatre dans le noir !&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lorsque nous avons finalement con\u00e7u, j'ai su exactement quand la conception avait eu lieu, ce qui m'a permis d'avoir une date d'accouchement plus pr\u00e9cise. Cependant, compte tenu de la longueur de mes cycles, mon obst\u00e9tricien m'a donn\u00e9 une date d'accouchement une semaine avant la date d'ovulation pr\u00e9vue. Malheureusement, m\u00eame si mes courbes de temp\u00e9rature confirmaient \u00e0 peu pr\u00e8s la date d'ovulation, il a continu\u00e9 \u00e0 utiliser la formule p\u00e9rim\u00e9e de la \"r\u00e8gle de Naegele\" pour pr\u00e9dire la date d'accouchement.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(En fin de compte, je crois que c'est la raison pour laquelle les <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/raisons-detre-induites\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">J'ai \u00e9t\u00e9 induite<\/a>Les \u00e9quipes soignantes qui m'ont suivi ont heureusement utilis\u00e9 mes diagrammes de temp\u00e9rature et mes signes de fertilit\u00e9 comme v\u00e9ritables indicateurs de mes \"dates d'accouchement\". Heureusement, les \u00e9quipes soignantes qui m'ont suivi ont utilis\u00e9 mes courbes de temp\u00e9rature et les signes de fertilit\u00e9 comme v\u00e9ritables pr\u00e9dicteurs de mes \"dates d'accouchement\").&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-using-nfp-postpartum-nbsp\"><span id=\"using-nfp-postpartum\">Utiliser la PFN dans le post-partum&nbsp;<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Apr\u00e8s la naissance de ma premi\u00e8re fille, je savais qu'il fallait observer le liquide cervical, mais je ne m'attendais pas \u00e0 ce qu'il y ait une augmentation de l'incidence des maladies infectieuses. <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/podcast\/nw-podcast-s2-ep-10-lallaitement-en-famille-yes-you-can\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">les nombreux \"faux d\u00e9parts\" qui peuvent survenir pendant l'allaitement<\/a>. J'avais une zone de liquide cervical fertile, qui disparaissait ensuite et n'entra\u00eenait pas d'ovulation. C'\u00e9tait un d\u00e9fi et cela nous a oblig\u00e9s, mon mari et moi, \u00e0 avoir de nombreuses conversations difficiles.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chaque retour \u00e0 la fertilit\u00e9 apr\u00e8s l'accouchement s'est produit \u00e0 des moments diff\u00e9rents, ce qui a ajout\u00e9 une nouvelle tournure \u00e0 mon parcours de planification familiale naturelle. Mais \u00e0 chaque fois que nous avons r\u00e9ussi \u00e0 relever les d\u00e9fis, je me suis sentie plus confiante que jamais dans mon corps et dans ma capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 lire mes signes de fertilit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-challenges-of-natural-family-planning-caused-better-communication-nbsp-nbsp\"><span id=\"the-challenges-of-natural-family-planning-caused-better-communication\">Les d\u00e9fis du planning familial naturel ont entra\u00een\u00e9 une meilleure communication&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Je ne veux pas passer sous silence les d\u00e9fis que peut poser l'utilisation de la PFN pendant la p\u00e9riode postnatale, parce qu'il est notoire que c'est une p\u00e9riode d\u00e9licate pour apprendre et\/ou utiliser la PFN. En fait, certaines femmes changent m\u00eame de m\u00e9thode \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0. J'ai explor\u00e9 d'autres m\u00e9thodes de PFN, mais pour l'instant, je n'ai pas les ressources n\u00e9cessaires pour apprendre quelque chose comme le <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/quelle-est-la-meilleure-methode-de-sensibilisation-a-la-fertilite-post-partum\/#:~:text=The%20Marquette%20Model%20uses%20the,considered%20the%20most%20objective%20method.\">La m\u00e9thode Marquette ou le mod\u00e8le Creighton<\/a>Ce qui est plus facile pour certaines femmes apr\u00e8s l'accouchement.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je suis reconnaissant pour <em>Prendre en charge sa fertilit\u00e9<\/em> en raison de son large \u00e9ventail de ressources \u00e9ducatives sur tous les signes de fertilit\u00e9. Il nous a incit\u00e9s, mon mari et moi, \u00e0 avoir de nombreuses conversations approfondies sur la PFN, ce qui nous a rapproch\u00e9s. Il m'a \u00e9galement aid\u00e9e \u00e0 prendre conscience de l'importance d'une bonne communication avec mon mari sur les signes de ma fertilit\u00e9, afin que nous restions sur la m\u00eame longueur d'onde en ce qui concerne nos objectifs en mati\u00e8re de planification familiale.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-unexpected-blessings-of-natural-family-planning\"><span id=\"the-unexpected-blessings-of-natural-family-planning\">Les bienfaits inattendus de la planification familiale naturelle<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tout au long de mon parcours de PFN, je me suis rendu compte que ma fertilit\u00e9 et celle de mon mari sont des \u00e9l\u00e9ments essentiels de la vie quotidienne. <em>les n\u00f4tres<\/em>-Il ne s'agit pas seulement de ma responsabilit\u00e9, mais d'une relation mutuelle qui exige une communication et un respect constants. Enfin, apr\u00e8s 11 ans de mariage et quatre b\u00e9b\u00e9s, j'ai confiance en mes observations et mon mari me fait confiance pour communiquer avec lui \u00e0 ce sujet. Ce sont deux choses merveilleuses !&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En outre, mon parcours avec la PFN m'a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 trouver ma place dans le monde. Sans mon parcours avec la contraception hormonale, les rem\u00e8des naturels, la PFN\/FAM, je ne pense pas que j'aurais d\u00e9couvert ce monde incroyable de la sant\u00e9 f\u00e9minine naturelle. J'aime discuter de la physiologie telle que Dieu l'a voulue, avec l'appui de preuves et de sagesse. 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