{"id":15712,"date":"2022-09-02T06:35:35","date_gmt":"2022-09-02T11:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/?p=15712"},"modified":"2025-01-14T07:44:22","modified_gmt":"2025-01-14T13:44:22","slug":"la-connaissance-de-la-fertilite-nest-pas-une-pilule-magique-pour-une-sexualite-epanouie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/fertility-awareness-not-magic-pill-for-great-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Que faire lorsque la connaissance de la fertilit\u00e9 n'est pas une pilule magique pour une vie sexuelle \u00e9panouie ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c0 l'approche de mon mariage, j'\u00e9tais tr\u00e8s inqui\u00e8te de l'\u00e9volution de ma relation avec mon fianc\u00e9 apr\u00e8s le grand jour, en particulier de l'introduction de la sexualit\u00e9 dans notre relation. Cependant, j'\u00e9tais assez confiante dans le fait que nous avions fait tout ce qui \u00e9tait en notre pouvoir pour avoir une bonne vie sexuelle. Nous entrions dans le mariage avec peu de bagages sexuels, je n'avais jamais pris de contraception et nous consid\u00e9rions tous les deux que le sexe \u00e9tait un magnifique cadeau qu'un couple mari\u00e9 s'offre l'un \u00e0 l'autre.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nous avons fait tout ce qu'il fallait et puis... nous avons fait... <em>pas <\/em>r\u00e9colter les fruits d'une sexualit\u00e9 fabuleuse et \u00e9panouie. Ce qui a commenc\u00e9 comme quelque chose de difficile et de maladroit n'a fait qu'empirer avec le temps. Plus je faisais l'amour de fa\u00e7on d\u00e9sagr\u00e9able, moins j'avais envie de recommencer. Finalement, nous avons r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que nous \u00e9tions bloqu\u00e9s et que nous ne savions pas quoi faire. Tous les conf\u00e9renciers et les livres que nous connaissions semblaient \u00eatre d'accord :<em> la premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape d'une grande intimit\u00e9 dans le mariage est d'abandonner le contr\u00f4le des naissances et d'adopter la connaissance de la fertilit\u00e9 !<\/em> Malgr\u00e9 les nombreux avantages document\u00e9s que les <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/04\/17\/parenting\/fertility\/fertility-awareness-methods.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">La GPA a une influence sur le contr\u00f4le des naissances<\/a> (meilleure communication, meilleure libido, relation plus saine dans son ensemble, plus grand plaisir sexuel, etc.), ce \"premier pas\" ne semblait pas \u00eatre la r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 tous nos probl\u00e8mes, alors...<em> Y a-t-il eu une deuxi\u00e8me \u00e9tape ?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quelques ann\u00e9es de mariage n'ont pas encore suffi \u00e0 faire de la sexualit\u00e9 un \u00e9l\u00e9ment positif de notre relation, mais j'aime \u00e0 penser que nous y arrivons. Pour tous ceux qui se d\u00e9battent avec l'intimit\u00e9 sexuelle dans le mariage (malgr\u00e9 les nombreux avantages de la connaissance de la fertilit\u00e9 et de l'attente du mariage pour avoir des relations sexuelles), voici quelques le\u00e7ons que nous avons apprises jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-getting-to-the-bottom-of-your-feelings-about-sex\"><span id=\"getting-to-the-bottom-of-your-feelings-about-sex\">Comment faire le point sur vos sentiments \u00e0 l'\u00e9gard de la sexualit\u00e9<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si quelque chose vous emp\u00eache d'avoir des relations sexuelles, la premi\u00e8re chose \u00e0 faire est de le d\u00e9couvrir. <em>ce que <\/em>que quelque chose est. Si votre m\u00e9decin peut vous aider \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre certains probl\u00e8mes physiques, il vous faudra peut-\u00eatre un peu plus de temps pour r\u00e9soudre les probl\u00e8mes de votre c\u0153ur et de votre esprit. R\u00e9fl\u00e9chissez aux questions suivantes :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Comment votre \u00e9ducation a-t-elle influenc\u00e9 votre vision de la sexualit\u00e9 ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Comment les m\u00e9dias et les influences culturelles ont-ils fa\u00e7onn\u00e9 votre point de vue sur la sexualit\u00e9 ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Comment voyez-vous votre propre corps et vos organes sexuels ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Quelles sont les difficult\u00e9s que vous essayez de surmonter dans votre relation avec votre conjoint ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Quelles sont vos attentes en mati\u00e8re de sexualit\u00e9 dans votre mariage ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Quelles sont les attentes de votre conjoint ?<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00eame si vous avez r\u00e9pondu \u00e0 certaines de ces questions dans le cadre d'un programme de pr\u00e9paration au mariage ou d'une retraite, il vaut la peine de les r\u00e9examiner apr\u00e8s avoir fait l'exp\u00e9rience du sexe. Peut-\u00eatre savez-vous logiquement que le sexe est quelque chose de bon, mais des sentiments de honte surgissent lorsque vous avez des rapports sexuels, ce qui justifie un examen de conscience. Ou peut-\u00eatre savez-vous exactement quoi dire \u00e0 un bon ami sur l'importance du consentement, mais vous vous sentez incapable de dire \"non\" dans votre propre mariage en raison de sentiments de culpabilit\u00e9, d'anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 ou d'ins\u00e9curit\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La v\u00e9rit\u00e9 est que, m\u00eame pour un couple qui a toujours accord\u00e9 une grande importance \u00e0 la chastet\u00e9, personne n'entre dans le mariage avec une ardoise vierge en ce qui concerne sa compr\u00e9hension de la sexualit\u00e9. Il peut \u00eatre douloureux de plonger en profondeur et d'identifier l'origine d'\u00e9motions n\u00e9gatives telles que la honte, la peur ou la culpabilit\u00e9, mais identifier le probl\u00e8me \u00e0 la racine est la premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape vers la gu\u00e9rison et la croissance - et, esp\u00e9rons-le, vers une meilleure relation sexuelle avec votre conjoint(e).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"dont-let-resentment-about-sex-fester\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ne laissez pas s'envenimer le ressentiment \u00e0 l'\u00e9gard de la sexualit\u00e9<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bien que le d\u00e9but d'une relation sexuelle implique n\u00e9cessairement quelques t\u00e2tonnements maladroits lorsque vous commencez \u00e0 explorer vos go\u00fbts et vos d\u00e9go\u00fbts, l'exp\u00e9rience devrait \u00eatre globalement positive. Apr\u00e8s tout, qui de mieux pour explorer et d\u00e9couvrir de nouvelles choses sur votre corps que la personne qui a jur\u00e9 de vous aimer et de vous ch\u00e9rir quoi qu'il arrive ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toutefois, si l'exp\u00e9rience n'est pas positive, prenez le temps de mettre le sexe en attente, de communiquer et de d\u00e9terminer ce qui doit changer. Les attentes non satisfaites, l'embarras ou le sentiment d'avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 utilis\u00e9 peuvent \u00eatre \u00e0 l'origine de ressentiments. L'honn\u00eatet\u00e9 et la responsabilit\u00e9 dans tous les domaines de votre mariage sont essentielles pour continuer \u00e0 vous rapprocher en tant que couple, tant \u00e0 l'int\u00e9rieur qu'\u00e0 l'ext\u00e9rieur de la chambre \u00e0 coucher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"celebrate-the-good-in-your-relationship\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">C\u00e9l\u00e9brez les aspects positifs de votre relation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vous avez peut-\u00eatre l'impression que vous et votre conjoint avez \u00e9chou\u00e9 d'une mani\u00e8re ou d'une autre parce que vous n'avez pas la vie sexuelle parfaite que vous attendiez apr\u00e8s avoir attendu le mariage. Cependant, n'oubliez pas que votre relation s'est d\u00e9velopp\u00e9e jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent sans rapports sexuels. Rappelez-vous toutes les choses qui vont bien dans votre mariage et la raison pour laquelle vous et votre conjoint vous \u00eates mari\u00e9s en premier lieu. Peut-\u00eatre que vous communiquez tr\u00e8s bien, que vous vous amusez beaucoup ensemble ou que vous vous \u00eates soutenus mutuellement dans des moments tr\u00e8s difficiles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oui, les difficult\u00e9s sexuelles peuvent \u00eatre <em>donc<\/em> La vie de couple peut \u00eatre stressante et frustrante, mais il ne faut pas que cela \u00e9clipse tout ce qui va bien. Si je devais choisir entre une histoire d'amour sauvage et passionn\u00e9e mais avec des conflits permanents ou un mariage aimant et respectueux avec quelques difficult\u00e9s dans la chambre \u00e0 coucher, je choisirais certainement le second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"so-what-can-you-do-when-sex-feels-lackluster\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alors, que faire lorsque le sexe n'est pas au rendez-vous ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La premi\u00e8re chose \u00e0 faire est de vous rappeler que vous n'\u00eates pas seul, que vous n'\u00eates pas un rat\u00e9 et que les choses ne sont pas si simples. <em>peut <\/em>s'am\u00e9liorer. Prenez le temps de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir \u00e0 l'origine de vos difficult\u00e9s sexuelles et d\u00e9cidez ensuite des mesures \u00e0 prendre. Pour certains couples, il suffit d'une discussion honn\u00eate et d'un changement des attentes en mati\u00e8re de sexualit\u00e9 (il n'y a pas de mal \u00e0 ce que la sexualit\u00e9 ne soit pas glamour !) Il y a de fortes chances que si vous avez du mal \u00e0 appr\u00e9cier les rapports sexuels, c'est aussi le cas de votre conjoint. N'ayez pas peur d'entamer la conversation et de faire part de vos difficult\u00e9s avec honn\u00eatet\u00e9 et empathie.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pour d'autres, c'est peut-\u00eatre le moment de s'adresser \u00e0 un ami de confiance, \u00e0 un conseiller matrimonial ou \u00e0 un m\u00e9decin, selon le probl\u00e8me que vous voulez r\u00e9gler. La sexualit\u00e9 comporte tellement d'aspects \u00e9motionnels, mentaux et physiques qu'il peut \u00eatre n\u00e9cessaire de s'adresser \u00e0 plusieurs personnes diff\u00e9rentes pour aller au fond des choses. (Certainement, <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/traitement-des-causes-profondes-des-rapports-sexuels-douloureux\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">si les rapports sexuels sont douloureux<\/a>Ce n'est pas normal, et vous devriez absolument en parler \u00e0 votre m\u00e9decin, et peut-\u00eatre envisager de consulter un m\u00e9decin de famille. <a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/podcast\/ep-2-quest-ce-que-la-therapie-du-plancher-pelvien-et-pourquoi-en-avez-vous-besoin\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">th\u00e9rapeute du plancher pelvien<\/a>).  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comme d'autres aspects de votre relation, le sexe est un voyage. Tout comme vous n'avez pas automatiquement compris toutes les \u00e9motions, id\u00e9es, amours et croyances de l'autre lorsque vous avez commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 sortir ensemble, vous ne pouvez pas automatiquement vous comprendre sur le plan sexuel d\u00e8s le premier jour du mariage. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 la croissance, \u00e0 la gu\u00e9rison (physique, \u00e9motionnelle ou mentale), \u00e0 l'apprentissage et au soutien, vous pouvez \u00e9tablir une base solide pour l'intimit\u00e9 dans le mariage qui vous servira pendant de nombreuses ann\u00e9es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lecture compl\u00e9mentaire :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/comment-la-pleine-conscience-peut-aider-a-ameliorer-la-communication-et-les-habitudes-de-suivi-des-couples-empathie-compassion-conscience-de-la-fertilite-2020\/\">Comment la pleine conscience peut-elle aider \u00e0 am\u00e9liorer la communication et les habitudes d'enregistrement pour les couples ?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/lutter-contre-le-pfn-lorsque-les-hommes-sopposent-a-labstinence\/\">Les hommes et la PFN : quand les d\u00e9fis de l'abstinence p\u00e9riodique semblent insupportables<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/quand-les-problemes-de-faible-libido-ne-sont-pas-uniquement-dans-votre-tete-2019\/\">Quand les probl\u00e8mes de libido ne sont pas qu'une question de t\u00eate<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/comment-la-vie-sexuelle-change-t-elle-apres-avoir-arrete-la-contraception\/\">Le sexe changera-t-il apr\u00e8s l'arr\u00eat de la pilule ? Une r\u00e9ponse honn\u00eate de quelqu'un qui est pass\u00e9 par l\u00e0<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/point-de-vue-de-la-femme-abstinence-pfn\/\">Abstinence et PFN : le point de vue de la femme<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/fr\/comment-construire-lintimite-quand-on-sabstient-planification-familiale-naturelle-semaine-du-pfn-abstinence-sexuelle-072018\/\">Comment d\u00e9velopper l'intimit\u00e9 lorsque l'on s'abstient de fumer<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Alors que le jour de mon mariage approchait, je me sentais vraiment nerveuse \u00e0 l'id\u00e9e de savoir comment ma relation avec mon 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