{"id":14750,"date":"2022-04-28T23:25:43","date_gmt":"2022-04-29T04:25:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/?p=14750"},"modified":"2024-06-11T12:14:58","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T17:14:58","slug":"planificacion-familiar-natural-abuso-sexual-parte-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/es\/natural-family-planning-sexual-abuse-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando la PFN se utiliza para abusar: Parte II de II"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4 id=\"trigger-warning-spousal-abuse-sexual-abuse-domestic-violence-pornography-addiction\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Advertencia desencadenante: Abuso conyugal, abuso sexual, violencia dom\u00e9stica, adicci\u00f3n a la pornograf\u00eda.<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<h1 id=\"part-ii-advice-for-nfp-instructors-and-couples-preparing-for-marriage\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Parte II: Consejos para los instructores de la PFN y las parejas que se preparan para el matrimonio<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La siguiente es la Parte II de la entrevista en dos partes de la escritora Jeanette Flood con Rita*, una mujer que sobrevivi\u00f3 a un matrimonio abusivo, en el que su marido se aprovechaba del uso que hac\u00edan de la planificaci\u00f3n familiar natural (PFN) para abusar de ella y manipularla. Compartimos la historia de Rita en honor de abril, que es el Mes de la Concienciaci\u00f3n sobre la Agresi\u00f3n Sexual. <em><mark style=\"background-color:#fff\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\"><a href=\"https:\/\/naturalwomanhood.org\/es\/planificacion-familiar-natural-y-abusos-sexuales\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Lea aqu\u00ed la primera parte de la historia de Rita<\/a>.<\/mark><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-purple-color\">&nbsp;<\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>La siguiente entrevista entre Rita (*seud\u00f3nimo) y la escritora Jeanette Flood ha sido ligeramente editada para mayor claridad y para proporcionar contexto cuando es necesario.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuando se le pregunta qu\u00e9 consejo dar\u00eda, o qu\u00e9 podr\u00edan decir los instructores de la PFN a las novias y\/o parejas para evitar que les ocurra lo que le pas\u00f3 a ella, Rita responde lo siguiente:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Creo que preparar a los instructores de la PFN para ayudar a las parejas es una buena idea. Creo que, dado que muchos usuarios de la PFN proceden de un entorno cristiano tradicional, especialmente cat\u00f3lico, es \u00fatil que el clero y los que se dedican a la instrucci\u00f3n moral sobre el sexo digan que est\u00e1 bien que los maridos y las mujeres digan 'no', aunque el otro c\u00f3nyuge tenga ganas, y que no se juzgue si uno quiere decir 'no'. No est\u00e1s reteniendo, <em>solo dices 'no<\/em>.'\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-it-s-okay-to-say-no-to-sex\"><span id=\"its-okay-to-say-no-to-sex\">Est\u00e1 bien decir \"no\" al sexo<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Y tambi\u00e9n\", contin\u00faa Rita, \"para que las parejas que se est\u00e1n preparando para el matrimonio, sepan que el hecho de que uno de los c\u00f3nyuges tenga ganas de sexo, no significa que t\u00fa <em>tienen <\/em>tener relaciones sexuales. El c\u00f3nyuge que tiene ganas no tiene por qu\u00e9 acercarse al otro. Y para el que recibe la petici\u00f3n, est\u00e1 bien decir 'no'\". <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Creo que una de las cosas que me obsesionaban era que si mi marido dec\u00eda que le apetec\u00eda, yo ten\u00eda que tener relaciones sexuales o le estaba rechazando, y que de alguna manera hab\u00eda alg\u00fan tipo de pecado o elemento moral que hac\u00eda que fuera malo decir 'no' a las insinuaciones sexuales de mi marido. Y creo que si los instructores de Planificaci\u00f3n Familiar Natural que est\u00e1n en un entorno religioso pueden apoyar esa idea, y literalmente decir a las parejas que '<em>Decir \"no\" al sexo no va a da\u00f1ar tu relaci\u00f3n sexual,<\/em>' que eso llegar\u00eda muy lejos\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Y no tiene por qu\u00e9 tener que ver con la fertilidad\", se\u00f1ala Rita. Es decir, que decir \"no\" no tiene por qu\u00e9 referirse \u00fanicamente a la planificaci\u00f3n familiar; que hay otras razones igualmente v\u00e1lidas para decir \"no\" al sexo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Digamos que ya tienes hijos\", dice Rita. \"Los ni\u00f1os est\u00e1n necesitados y no puedo acostarme contigo esta noche. 'Estoy cansada' es una excusa v\u00e1lida. 'Ha sido un d\u00eda duro' es una excusa v\u00e1lida. Hay muchos consejos matrimoniales, sobre todo en el mundo cristiano tradicional, que dicen que hay que dedicar tiempo al c\u00f3nyuge, que no hay que dejar que los hijos dicten la din\u00e1mica del matrimonio, que hay que asegurarse de que la relaci\u00f3n con el c\u00f3nyuge tiene prioridad sobre la relaci\u00f3n con los hijos\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Todos estos consejos presionan, sobre todo a las esposas, para que se aseguren de que los ni\u00f1os est\u00e1n contentos, para que ella pueda mantener contento a su marido. Y creo que los instructores de la PFN tienen que asegurarse de que las parejas, especialmente las j\u00f3venes, sepan que tomarse un tiempo sin sexo, o decir 'no' al sexo, no va a da\u00f1ar su relaci\u00f3n. Y luego ser capaces de dar ejemplos de c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda un 'no' sano, y el respeto, y la comunicaci\u00f3n abierta y honesta sobre el sexo, no s\u00f3lo sobre el espaciamiento de los hijos\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-yes-is-not-the-default-when-it-comes-to-sex\"><span id=\"yes-is-not-the-default-when-it-comes-to-sex\">El \"s\u00ed\" no es la norma cuando se trata de sexo<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Porque creo que otra cosa es que en la PFN\", contin\u00faa Rita, \"se hace hincapi\u00e9 en no tener relaciones sexuales s\u00f3lo porque todav\u00eda no se quieren tener hijos. Y creo que ser\u00eda \u00fatil que los instructores de la PFN tuvieran m\u00e1s formaci\u00f3n en din\u00e1micas sexuales sanas, y as\u00ed no presentar a las parejas j\u00f3venes que la respuesta por defecto para el sexo es siempre 's\u00ed'.\"&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Y\", contin\u00faa Rita, \"los instructores deber\u00edan decir que cada encuentro sexual que tienen un marido y una mujer es \u00fanico, por as\u00ed decirlo, que nunca hay una presunci\u00f3n de 's\u00ed' o una presunci\u00f3n de 'no', sino simplemente una conversaci\u00f3n sobre: '\u00bfC\u00f3mo nos sentimos los dos esta noche? Y si existe esa libertad de '\u00bfC\u00f3mo nos sentimos esta noche?' y tambi\u00e9n, '\u00bfC\u00f3mo es nuestra situaci\u00f3n familiar?', creo que eso ayudar\u00e1 a facilitar conversaciones m\u00e1s sanas entre las parejas\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En otras palabras, el sexo nunca es algo \"dado\", sino un regalo que siempre se da libremente, todas y cada una de las veces.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-nfp-could-help-prevent-women-from-entering-abusive-relationships\"><span id=\"how-nfp-could-help-prevent-women-from-entering-abusive-relationships\">C\u00f3mo la PFN podr\u00eda ayudar a evitar que las mujeres entren en relaciones abusivas<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"De hecho, tengo una amiga\", cuenta Rita, \"ella y su marido son instructores de la Liga de Pareja a Pareja. En nuestra di\u00f3cesis, una pareja de Pre-Cana toma la primera clase de la Liga Pareja a Pareja, y eso cumple el requisito para Pre-Cana, pero s\u00f3lo tienen que tomar el resto de las clases de la serie si as\u00ed lo desean.\"&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Y con esta joven pareja que mis amigos estaban asesorando, cuando surgi\u00f3 la cuesti\u00f3n de que con la Planificaci\u00f3n Familiar Natural, podr\u00eda haber momentos en su matrimonio en los que probablemente no tendr\u00edan relaciones sexuales, el novio se enfad\u00f3 mucho por esa idea. Y \u00e9l me dijo: \"No, no creo que debas tener razones para no tener relaciones sexuales. Estamos casados, vamos a tener sexo, \u00bfno?\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Al cabo de un tiempo, mi amigo decidi\u00f3 hablar con la pareja para ver si iban a apuntarse al resto de las clases de la serie, y la mujer le dijo: 'No, no vamos a asistir a las clases. Hemos roto\". Porque vio que la respuesta de \u00e9l sobre no tener relaciones sexuales le abri\u00f3 los ojos, que no iba a ser una din\u00e1mica sana si \u00e9l no estaba de acuerdo con que yo dijera 'no', o con que hubiera una situaci\u00f3n en la que no tuvi\u00e9ramos relaciones sexuales\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-there-will-be-times-in-any-marriage-when-you-can-t-have-sex\"><span id=\"there-will-be-times-in-any-marriage-when-you-cant-have-sex\">Habr\u00e1 momentos en <em>cualquier <\/em>el matrimonio cuando no se puede tener sexo<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Lo que me lleva de nuevo a una parte de mi experiencia\", contin\u00faa Rita, \"porque hay otros momentos en los que una pareja no tendr\u00eda relaciones sexuales, por ejemplo, durante el periodo posparto. La mayor\u00eda de los m\u00e9dicos recomiendan un m\u00ednimo de cuatro semanas, idealmente seis, en las que la mujer debe guardar reposo p\u00e9lvico absoluto y no mantener relaciones sexuales tras el nacimiento del beb\u00e9. Mi marido no respet\u00f3 eso. Por eso, creo que incluso mencionar eso en una clase -en una clase de la Liga de Pareja a Pareja o en otra clase de PFN- es algo que las parejas van a tener momentos en los que no van a tener relaciones sexuales, y no tiene que ver necesariamente con esperar a tener m\u00e1s beb\u00e9s.\"&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rita hace la excelente observaci\u00f3n de que esto no es exclusivo de las parejas que utilizan la PFN. Dice: \"Incluso las parejas que usan anticonceptivos, incluso las parejas que usan la esterilizaci\u00f3n, tendr\u00e1n momentos, si tienen un beb\u00e9, en los que no tendr\u00e1n relaciones sexuales. Habr\u00e1 momentos en los que el beb\u00e9 se pase toda la noche gritando, y todos est\u00e9n cansados al d\u00eda siguiente, y no tengan relaciones sexuales. O, ya sabes, un ni\u00f1o est\u00e1 enfermo, y empiezan a tener relaciones sexuales, y luego un ni\u00f1o vomita, y es como, est\u00e1 bien, bueno, eso se ha ido. O como m\u00ednimo, ya sabes, el per\u00edodo postparto. Seis semanas sin sexo\".&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Y si un marido no puede asumir, o si un novio no puede asumir el hecho de que va a haber al menos un momento en mi matrimonio en el que tendr\u00e9 que pasar seis semanas sin sexo... o \u00e9l tendr\u00eda que decir: '\u00bfMerece la pena? O una mujer mirar\u00eda la respuesta de su novio, y tendr\u00eda que, ya sabes, mirar honestamente y decir: '\u00bfEstoy dispuesta a casarme con alguien que se enfada con la idea de no tener sexo durante seis semanas? Y tambi\u00e9n, tener el valor de no negarlo y decir: 'Bueno, quiz\u00e1 cuando nos hayamos casado y \u00e9l haya sentado la cabeza, las cosas sean diferentes'\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-additional-training-for-nfp-instructors-may-be-warranted-nbsp\"><span id=\"additional-training-for-nfp-instructors-may-be-warranted\">Puede estar justificada la formaci\u00f3n adicional de instructores de PFN&nbsp;<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rita concluye su consejo con la sugerencia de que los instructores de los PFN se familiaricen con las se\u00f1ales de advertencia del maltrato dom\u00e9stico.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Dado que la mayor\u00eda de los instructores de la PFN no s\u00f3lo imparten clases en el aula, sino que tambi\u00e9n hacen consultas y sesiones individuales\", dice Rita, \"puede ser \u00fatil que escuchen, especialmente de una mujer, 'Me preocupa mucho la respuesta de mi novio a esto, o la respuesta de mi marido', que los instructores de la PFN no s\u00f3lo escuchan, sino que est\u00e1n preparados y entienden la din\u00e1mica del abuso en las relaciones. Entonces, podr\u00e1n ayudar a una mujer que pueda estar entrando en una relaci\u00f3n abusiva. Por eso, tal vez se justifique alg\u00fan tipo de formaci\u00f3n en identificaci\u00f3n de la violencia dom\u00e9stica cuando se forme a los propios instructores de la PFN\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En Natural Womanhood estamos incre\u00edblemente agradecidos a Rita por compartir su historia y sus sabios consejos con nosotros. Creemos que la historia de Rita muestra que aunque la PNF tiene el potencial de ser usada para el abuso, tambien puede revelar problemas en una relacion que podrian ayudar a una mujer a evitar entrar en un matrimonio abusivo si tiene la orientacion adecuada durante el asesoramiento prematrimonial. Lo que tambi\u00e9n se desprende claramente de la historia de Rita es que ofrecer \u00fanicamente m\u00e9todos anticonceptivos a una mujer en una relaci\u00f3n abusiva es una evasiva de la peor clase, ya que los propios m\u00e9todos anticonceptivos pueden ayudar a ocultar pruebas de abuso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Por \u00faltimo, animamos a quienes ense\u00f1an planificaci\u00f3n familiar natural o conocimiento de la fertilidad a las parejas (incluido cualquier cl\u00e9rigo que participe en el asesoramiento prematrimonial o precana) a que se familiaricen con las se\u00f1ales de advertencia de abuso que Rita comenta m\u00e1s arriba, y a que comuniquen claramente a sus parejas las expectativas sexuales arraigadas en el amor al otro (no en el uso), y la necesidad de una abstinencia respetuosa en el matrimonio, independientemente del m\u00e9todo que utilicen para la planificaci\u00f3n familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"additional-reading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Lecturas complementarias:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<h4 id=\"betrayal-trauma-recovery\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Traici\u00f3n, Trauma, Recuperaci\u00f3n<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e1gina web: <a href=\"http:\/\/btr.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">btr.org<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/betrayal-trauma-recovery\/id1118969643\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/betrayal-trauma-recovery\/id1118969643<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 id=\"integrity-restored\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Integridad restaurada<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e1gina web: <a href=\"https:\/\/integrityrestored.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/integrityrestored.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 id=\"catholics-for-family-peace\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Cat\u00f3licos por la Paz Familiar<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e1gina web: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.catholicsforfamilypeace.org\/\">http:\/\/www.catholicsforfamilypeace.org\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 id=\"fight-the-new-drug\" class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Combatir la nueva droga<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e1gina web: <a href=\"https:\/\/fightthenewdrug.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/fightthenewdrug.org\/<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Advertencia desencadenante: Abuso conyugal, abuso sexual, violencia dom\u00e9stica, adicci\u00f3n a la pornograf\u00eda Parte II: Consejos para instructores de PFN y parejas...","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":14763,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5310,5179],"tags":[58,5407,5465],"class_list":["post-14750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-fam-and-relationships","category-fertility-awareness-methods","tag-natural-family-planning","tag-relationship-health-nfp-vs-birth-control","tag-talking-with-your-partner-about-nfp","cs-entry","cs-video-wrap"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.9 (Yoast SEO v28.0) - 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